I installed elephant software, i got the license but there is a problem.

I'm getting this error all the time when I want to create a database:

Connextion to database server lost!
Fatal: 28000: password authetication failed for user "xxxxxxxx"

I just can't fix it. Can someone help me with this? I play on FTP btw, and i heard there is a problem also with the 9 man ring. thanks