Okay what i have to say i just my experience I've only hit around 14k hands SSS and yes most of it has been painful! Like Brian said you can go broke when you first start out based on these things! I would have been broke -$53.00 If i had not deposited!
1) Your new you make mistakes!! Like it was said a mistake or two every 3000 hands can eat ur profits (I was making more in the begining)
2) Combine this with getting unlucky I had a 11BI downswing mainly AK and AA, KK losses nothing could win!
3) Watch freeplay can't say this enough the money i lost free play was huge! See the forums freeplay more often than not check / fold
4) Watch AQ, KQ, 77 - TT - I've started not playing low pockets and usually limp KQ then check/fold flop if didnt hit! This has reduced variance for me!
5) What site are you on ? and when you play ? You have to fish when the fish are bitting I like london evening times on titan and american evenings on stars! Its alot harder to win NL10 on titan than it is on stars! I deposited on titan and beeing playing a little NL20 much nicer game IMO.
6) Keep playing! I had a 12BI+ day yesterday still down for the month but god it feels good to play great and get rewarded!
7) Stealing, dont' steal at NL10 not necessary ofcourse if the table is tight and the timing is right definately use your position if you have the cards dont bluff! If you want to bring this to your game get your bronze game AA+ before you add in the stealing! Im personally going to look at stealing at NL50 however if my game is going well at NL20 i might look add it on weak players / tables for extra BB/100
8) You have to stay positive and remember why your playing! I mean if your loosing money when you start thats not a bad thing if you have the right attitude. You will understand your loosing for a reason and look for the leaks etc! If you are a winning player from the start this is bad because it can set you up for a big fall later when your heater runs out and you crash! So i think loosing will make us less complacent, stronger players better to manage and respect your soon to come large bankroll.
Anways just my 2c what i've learnt on my 6week journey! Main thing is somedays are gonna suck money wise but you might learn a shitload about your game so keep learnings! once your game is hot so too will be your BR! Read read not just the articles the forums are a great resource! When i need to find a leak on my game read posts - post hands etc