I'm not sure what you mean.
The comes from bad plays by your opponent. Exploiting their mistakes or forcing them to do them is what we try to do. (By playing according to our strategy.)
Or do you mean that they say.... we we won money from them because they called without odds? Like when someone calls with a gutshot while only getting 6:1 or so.
Maybe you mean to improve the game by thinking about your game. This will improve through discussionbs with other players. Either via coaching, hand judging or talking about hand with other player at skype etc..
You can try to get used to the software "Equlilator" with which you can see whether you made a good move/call or whatever. Practising with it will improve your game. If you see that you are a huge underdog with a certain hand in a specific situation you may fold it next time. Or if you are a big favorite you might raise him etc..
Maybe one of the points answer your question at least a big.
Feel free to ask if it isn't.