88 set how to get value better?

I don't mind min-reraising flop. While we always have the best hand, we still want to get stacks in by the river.

The kind of hands he will raise us with will be mostly: AQ, 77, 87s, JTs, T9s, 65s imo

If he has total air, I don't think he will raise this flop. All of the above hands will definitely call a small flop 3bet, then we can make medium sized bets on turn and river and get called down by the worse made hands.

As played I like check/jam turn much better than check/call. You are OOP so it will be hard to get value on river from anything that will fold to turn raise to begin with. Also if hes totally bluffing he probably shuts down on river anyway, so I wouldn't worry about stopping him barreling by jamming or anything.