Relationship Advice!!

IMO don't waste time on forum asking for stupid questions and go for the girl if you really like her. Sometimes if you wait too long you might miss a great opportunity that BOTH of you might regret later in life.

just my 2 cents.

Go for it!

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This is very simple. Find her somewhere and give your number and same time just ask her out and just with you. Girls are not rocket science. Go for it man!

Originally posted by ilostmysoul
We just let our hands drag along each other's hand and body until we broke apart

She obv can't fold full house in that spot! glglgl!

Originally posted by Tinsley15

Originally posted by ilostmysoul
We just let our hands drag along each other's hand and body until we broke apart

She obv can't fold full house in that spot! glglgl!
Hi, ilostmysoul...
Nor shouid you.

In spots like this it pays to be aggressive but not overly aggressive.
If you use too large a bet size, she'll fold -- the idea is to use small bets that make her want to come along.
By all means let her raise, and if she does, call.

Don't be in a big hurry to be all-in on the river.

In this game, there are many more streets to play.

Best wishes for a peaceful, prosperous 2015,
VS

Thank you all for your answers and incentives
However I should make clear that the reason I'm asking this question is that I can't count on seeing her. My college has around 4 different buildings separated by a huge distance, and she is in a course that makes her switch between 2 of them actively, while I'm staying only in one of those. Every one of those buildings is then divided in 4-5 different sections. Besides she never has one single class next to me. I also don't have access to her schedule and the schedule itself changes slightly every week. I'm also moving into another building if I manage to change courses, and then we won't even be having classes in the same general place.

Being the good poker players that you are, I hope you realize that if I sit tight and wait for a chance to see her or to pass by her again, I'm relying 100% on luck, which kinda sucks in both "businesses". I was hoping somebody would give me a way for me to have the slightest control over this situation (like using the other 2 girls to set something up between all of us).
Thanks once again and good luck in the tables

Could meet in the library after classes, or cafe between classes, it's how I used to do it and I did it quite a lot. Instead of passing by and high five-ing, pass by and pass a note instead!
Don't you have a day where there are no classes, like we had sports days? You could get someone to arrange a meeting doing some sporty thing or even just watching.

Originally posted by gadget51
Could meet in the library after classes, or cafe between classes, it's how I used to do it and I did it quite a lot. Instead of passing by and high five-ing, pass by and pass a note instead!
Don't you have a day where there are no classes, like we had sports days? You could get someone to arrange a meeting doing some sporty thing or even just watching.

Hey!
In order for me to meet at the library or get cafe with her I would still have to text her out of the blue the note thing is an idea that really attracted me, but it would still require me to actually pass by her again, which only happened 3 times in 4 months. It's quite rare really.

And we also don't have an universal "no-class" day. I don't have classes Thursday, but that's not the same for every course. Even in my own course there are people who have classes Thursday, but don't have classes Tuesday, like I do. There's no way for me to know when she does or does not have classes unless I ask her.
Sport days aren't a thing also. There is no college sport team that the whole college can get together and watch. Sometimes the course's students arrange football meet-ups as a chance for everyone from that course getting together. But these games are arranged via text message and we are asked not to spread it beyond course's students in order to make it a more personal, family-like experience, so I don't know when her course has these events.

My best bet is to set up a meeting, just not sure whether I should do it directly or through friends. Otherwise I'm stuck.
Thanks for answering and good luck in the tables

Originally posted by ilostmysoul
My best bet is to set up a meeting, just not sure whether I should do it directly or through friends. Otherwise I'm stuck.
Thanks for answering and good luck in the tables
Hi, ilostmysoul,
If I may make a couple of observations it sounds like:
 You like this girl
 She is at least open to the idea of further contact with you.
 You are fairly nervous

With that in mind, I would suggest that you make the contact directly. Going through friends means they would have to be extremely trustworthy. Nothing could be worse than having her find out by rumour that you are interested.
If you don't have her # then texting won't work.
Have you tried facebook or twitter or whatever else you might have available?
Arrange to walk past the same place(s) you met here before -- she will likely pass that way again.

Best of luck,
VS

Just ask her out or add her on FB and ask her out.

I used to be quite shy around women until I met this really hot girl. I added her on FB and asked her out, now we're in a relationship for almost a year. Never thought it would be so easy.

She obviously likes you, so don't waste time, that's the biggest mistake you can make.

"give her a hi5, but after it none of us took the hand back"
I will tell you only one thing and you can listen or dont its your choice!If u have strong feelings toward that girl and you want to be with her then for ONE DAY let evrything go and just go to her.Say what you have to say.!Dont text,dont tweet.Go directly to her and just tell her how you feel.
I too had a hi5 moment with my girlfriend and back then we had just met for the first time.Okay now i live in another country and speak another language but hey ♦ Thats love...i mean in a poker words"She raised my blind and i just moved in on her".
Im trying to say that we wont live forever...no matter what we do with our lives result is the same...If you like that girl and if u have strong feelings for her...Give yourself a chance and be brave.
I apologize for my english.When i wake up today im going to do some loundry and cook a nice launch!After that il make some cakes!!:fouet::welcome::gl:

Thanks everyone for keep answering and updating this thread and I do apologize if I'm becoming annoying/repetitive

Originally posted by VorpalF2F

Originally posted by ilostmysoul
My best bet is to set up a meeting, just not sure whether I should do it directly or through friends. Otherwise I'm stuck.
Thanks for answering and good luck in the tables
Hi, ilostmysoul,
If I may make a couple of observations it sounds like:
 You like this girl
 She is at least open to the idea of further contact with you.
 You are fairly nervous

With that in mind, I would suggest that you make the contact directly. Going through friends means they would have to be extremely trustworthy. Nothing could be worse than having her find out by rumour that you are interested.
If you don't have her # then texting won't work.
Have you tried facebook or twitter or whatever else you might have available?
Arrange to walk past the same place(s) you met here before -- she will likely pass that way again.

Best of luck,
VS

Uhh nice input!!
I do have her number, and I'm 80% sure she still has mine. I deleted it last year but got it back (indirectly tho, through a mutual friend). I also did tell her to delete my number but she had no reason to do that, since I never bothered her through texting at all. Matter of fact the few messages I sent her were only answers to hers, and it only happened twice. She never showed any sings of interest last year, but they're appearing out of everywhere right now.
I'm kinda nervous when I think about the logic behind a relationship with a girl. When I'm face-to-face with her or she personally rejects me, I'm 100% confident. It might hurt for a while but after a good night's sleep I'm over it. Trust me, if I knew I could find her and where, I wouldn't mind talking directly to her and asking her out. However wandering the streets randomly or standing still in one place waiting for someone who may never pass by isn't really my thing :/

I'm also strongly against any type of social network and I have my justifications but that's off-topic. Not engaging in any of them tho I think all this also applies to luitzen and Demetrius24's answers too.

Once again thank you for your attention and taking an interest in me, and good luck in the tables :f_thumbsup::f_drink:
Oh, and also, I hope that lunch tastes amazing, Demetrius! Bon apetite!!

Heh yeah will see ♦ Im sorry i just wanted to give you support and to brave u up a little.Well then try to txt and ask her out.Only way to find out whats up i guess.
I tryed to be funny with my comment just to cheer you up ♦
Stay and :f_drink:one with me.
Yeah social networks and relationships....no need to say anything.

What are you apologizing for? Thanks for your support and humor I really appreciate it :f_thumbsup:.
Yea I'll probably text her when I'm back to town next week and ask her out for a quick coffee. Still quite unsure about how that will turn out, after all we haven't talked in a long while so I'm not sure how she will react to a text invitation. Most likely she'll reject.

And I'm not very good at texting at all; I can ruin the whole thing when trying to text a girl I see consistently, let alone someone I haven't talked to in months. A best bet would be to wait until I see her again, but then again this is extremely unlikely too. Gee tough position :/

UPDATE: I have actually figured an opening. I now know 1 class she has and I can figure out the time she leaves the class. And because she lives a bit down on my street, she has to pass by my house after classes. There's a slight chance she gets off at lunch time and goes to eat out somewhere and then I'm still stuck. Otherwise I could very innocently cross paths with her and talk to her. If it didn't work out then I'd cut the chase. Yeay. Took a bit of thinking and memories I had forgotten but it's worth a shot. Just hopping she doesn't get out at lunch time.

I dont know what to say.I mean try to send a text and explain that u would like to invite her to a cup of coffe and that you want to talk to her.If u get rejected at least you know where u at.I mean how long are u going to wait.Try and see.
U dont have to listen to me im just saying it would be better for you right?Dont be affraid of rejection...its worse if u dont know at all.
At least thats the way i feel about it.

Thanks again :

Originally posted by Demetrius24
I dont know what to say.I mean try to send a text and explain that u would like to invite her to a cup of coffe and that you want to talk to her.If u get rejected at least you know where u at.I mean how long are u going to wait.Try and see.
U dont have to listen to me im just saying it would be better for you right?Dont be affraid of rejection...its worse if u dont know at all.
At least thats the way i feel about it.

Just updated my last post, I think I can have a chance to personally meet her. One way or another this has to end Tuesday, tops. At least for me to get rejected and get her out of my head. Even if that means I have to stay on my building's stairs all day long until she passes by. How romantic (and at the same time +/- creepy) would that be? If I still haven't seen her by Wendsday, then yea I'm risking it all and send her a text. But I think my problem is pretty much solved.
Once again, thank you all that participated ♦

Originally posted by Demetrius24
"give her a hi5, but after it none of us took the hand back"
I will tell you only one thing and you can listen or dont its your choice!If u have strong feelings toward that girl and you want to be with her then for ONE DAY let evrything go and just go to her.Say what you have to say.!Dont text,dont tweet.Go directly to her and just tell her how you feel.
I too had a hi5 moment with my girlfriend and back then we had just met for the first time.Okay now i live in another country and speak another language but hey ♦ Thats love...i mean in a poker words"She raised my blind and i just moved in on her".
Im trying to say that we wont live forever...no matter what we do with our lives result is the same...If you like that girl and if u have strong feelings for her...Give yourself a chance and be brave.
I apologize for my english.When i wake up today im going to do some loundry and cook a nice launch!After that il make some cakes!!:fouet::welcome::gl:

This!