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@Econom1sta, why so scared? we already know two possible outcome.

She'll reject you: ok, so? her loss, yes?
She is just a girl god damn it not a tornado who will destroy you if she says no. You know how many girls are out there looking for a guy like you? (I assume that you're a sweetheart and want to be a good prince to a girl one day)

She'll says yes: ok, so? You won? You do not know her so well, do you? So you might end up just being friends anyway because believe it or not, 80% of the time that special someone turns out not to be so special. And if she is, you'll have an awesome time together with out having to wait for another 10 years before you scoop up all your man power

you have a pic of her somewhere?

Ingi

wise words from my girl here

yes it's just a girl. she is probably just as self-conscious as you are.

and unlike poker getting it in behind with the drunk fish is perfectly fine

Of course, and I don't mind a suckout either.

Originally posted by IngridN

you have a pic of her somewhere?

Ingi

Originally posted by Maniatrix

In fact, only the shallow among us care AT ALL for appearance.

YAY I'm super shallow!

Better yet. Just go buy or download the book called The Mystery Method which is like The Super System for girls

It's like the Super System, outdated. Those moves have become very obvious just like cbetting 100% so I don't recommend it at all.

To explain this so poker players will understand. Any thinking opponent on the higher levels (hot chicks) will be able to exploit you (reject you). However, you can always move down in stakes and settle for smaller profits (not so hot chicks). Of course, once in a while there is a big fish at the higher stakes (hot drunk chick) that you can try to get a seat next to (get in your bed), just know that every other reg (dude) will be trying to do the same.

Alternatively, you can just skip the mystery method and try something they haven't heard a 100 times before. Scripted routines suck any way.

lol lol this is a great comeback post. Man I love this thread.

Basically there's 2 things that i am 100% sure

1) Girls love guys that are not wuss, stand for what they want, are tall and smile (Well, look isn't that important)
2) Cocky & Funny always work....with any girls pretty much...in fact it works with everyone if you have that attitude, it makes you shine with confidence and girls just love confidence.

My 2 cents

Nice posts ^

And I created this tread for trolling. Now it's interesting and educational.

I'll return later to drop a long post...now I've got no inspitartion. ♦

The Game, hellooooo?

1) Girls love guys that are not wuss, stand for what they want, are tall and smile (Well, look isn't that important)
2) Cocky & Funny always work....with any girls pretty much...in fact it works with everyone if you have that attitude, it makes you shine with confidence and girls just love confidence.

Definitely, just don't use scripted routines.

The Game, hellooooo?

The Game is just a story of a bunch of guys picking up chicks according to Mystery Method. The Game became such a popular books that it basically ruined the routines from Mystery Method, even the girls read it.

i gotta +1 stevegold ♦ confidence is gold. i love funny too with a little bit of cocky. although if it's too much, makes me just wanna roll my eyes.

wow ingy nice picture, we did a photo shoot like that once, called "painting with lights". was great fun and kinda difficult. did you take that shot yourself?

Well, first of all external you were right man!

Ingi you are sooo right, but I'm not so afraid conciously, rather I wasn't sure of what I really want and I wasn't decisive, regarding this chick I like. I probably did disappoint her in some way so she maybe gave up trying. Yea it's totaly my fault, but it doesn't matter anymore, now it's time to see if I can do anything to get things straight. I did ask her out via sms, but she answered something like 'sure, there's time'. She was probably unable to go out at that moment. Anyway I hope I'll meet her soon somewhere, or atleast catch her up on fb to evaluate the situation...I don't wanna push her much risking things mess up, I'm gonna stick to this status quo until I think of better solution. Anyway if things go in right direction, what I really hope, you'll get a pic of us together!

Anyway I like that this tread is spreading on a wider aspect of this 'love area'. I personaly haven't checked out 'Mistery method' but I have read some similar material. About routines and those pick up lines, I don't really care about that. I'm more interested in other things, like scaning body language, signals, noticing things and geting right mindset to be able to catch up every opportunity you get. So I'm seeking for improvement in this area. I heard 90% of communication is happening in other ways, but words. Why not investigate?

Basically I'm looking to change my ways of thinking, lose bad habits, I've been traped in 'my world' for a long time. I need to stop being too calculative and thinking and be more concrete about things I want and start working to get them. Often I put myself goals that are hard to reach, so I get disappointed often. Well, time to stop whining and change things.

Girls love guys that are not wuss, stand for what they want, are tall and smile (Well, look isn't that important)

nice^

Confidence|Arogance - it's a thin line, is that what you meen purplefizz?

That's why when you are cocky you also need to be funny, just being cocky will make you sound like a jerk, you definally need to make her laugh but let her know that you are confident with yourself. It's a thing that you can develop with training I suppose like anything else. Negging a girl in a funny way is def a way to be cocky & funny (see the example given in this thread by someone else)

Also I will tell you that if you messed up with a girl and she put you in the friendzone (girls will friendzone you very fast if you don't do something to make them think otherwise) it will be very, very, very hard to get out of it. I would suggest you just go for another girl unless you really really want her but you will have to work 3x as hard imo. Probably people told you this before but there's plenty of hot willing girls in the world :P.

And also if you are not use to chat to random girls it will be very hard to come up with stuff this is when scripted routines can become interesting just so that you don't stand there looking akward with huge silences, depending on how far you're coming from.

I agree that some of the mystery method is outdated. Mainly the lines and routines which I never liked using anyway. The theory behind it is solid though. Body language, psychology etc the rest you need to make your own otherwise it won't work. Everything else I would back 100%. The main thing every guy needs is confidence though.

These books about how to pick up girls in general don't work as expected because they are usually based in common sense and personal experience so they take cultural factors and some other variants in account, so what worked for the guy who wrote the book may not work for you because you may not be in the same environment. So the golden rule would be " DON'T TAKE THESE POPULAR BOOKS THAT YOU CAN BUY IN THE BUS STATION SERIOUSLY" because they are not based on scientific approaches so there is no guarantee that they work. I don't know the book but I'm kinda supposing it because these popular books tend to be like that.
If you want some more serious stuff you can look in google academic for some articles about the subject, It's not like the easiest thing to understand but it's not rocket science too. About facial expressions and these kind of things you can look for Dr. Paul Ekman, he's kinda the man in this area. I have already seen some quite serious documentaries about the subject in discovery channel, natgeo, bbc and etc. you can take a look if u want. My cognitive behavioral psychology teacher showed us a really good documentary about the subject in the beginning of the semester maybe I can find it and upload it
But still if you have any kind of unwanted behavior you can always look for a psychologist to help you to fix your problem( you can always try to find a couch to fix your leaks).

this thread ♦

Originally posted by pleno1
this thread ♦

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This thread never fails to amuse quality

Cut the crap, just show her a credit card.

Originally posted by gadget51
Cut the crap, just show her a credit card.

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