oh boy.. listen to me carefully. Firstly you need to change your attitude. No offense but you do sound like someone who just started with poker complaining how many bad beats there are and you are always on wrong side of it...
My advice: get used to it, this is not sure win game. Your only goal now should be to improve your game as much as possible and to play alot, put the volume in, results will come later.
That is of course if you want to get even near 100k$ in 1 year.
STOP sportsbetting rightnow, unless you are analyzing matches on your own for 10h+/day, otherwise you are only loosing money.
There are some sites that actually send you +EV tips everyday, but mainly on internet you will found only cheaters who want to rob you of your money!
If you are betting only by your feeling and because you only think some bets are sure... Well thats wrong, really wrong!!! And you are loosing money everytime you place a bet.
As far as your future wife goes... If she wants a financial security thats fine if you can provide it to her, but listen to me good: DO NOT give her apartment, make sure that everything you gave her is yours so she will always feel the need she has to stay with you. I am sorry but that is how it works. If a girl looks way better than you do and you are okay being with her only because she looks hot and she with you only because you have money... Then be sure to spoil her, but do not give her everything because she wont feel the need to be with you anymore then. Thats is how it works.
And remember..stop complaining how bad you run all the time, when you played only 100 !!!! sngs. Serious grinders put in 200 sngs everyday, and runs of 1000 games being breakeven are nothin unusual, in fact they can be fairly common.
Just keep improving your game, study alot if you want to earn money, nothing is free in this world, and put the volume in and do not be lazy.
Sorry for the long post, but i see alot of people just like you wanting to earn shit loads of money by not working very hard to be baller and have the most awesome chicks around them.
Remember, you need to work hard in poker, just like in every other sport to earn alot of money and enjoy your life later on.
If you do not take what i wrote seriously, you will be very dissapointed in 1 year, you will feel just like you threw so many months away for nothing.