Hi
If I'm not too intrusive, I unfortunately know what you're going through and I have felt the frustration over the years. I am new here but not new to poker although I did stop playing for a few years because of the tilt I got from similar situations.
What I can recommend is have your strategy put together, stick by it, aggressively if you wish so. But before tilting when it feels like your strategy doesn't work, take your time to analyse the players at the table, if you're playing classic PL or NL. Take even more analysis time than actual play time so you can build a strategy against those specific players at that time. If you notice very unusual play from one or more players, make sure to take it into account as they could be bots and there are plenty out there but you can adjust your game accordingly. Don't get put off, as I personally can't seem to think of any platform that doesn't have bots. But we all have to beat hem at their own game played by their rules. A bit gangish but you play their game.
The aforementioned suggestions don't apply to zoom/rush/snap. For these I recommend calculated aggression, patience and fold when aggression doesn't work but have a strategy that you stick by no matter what. In heads up, stick to a good betting strategy.
I'm also not going to give you my opinion on the algorithm for "randomness" of cards, practice adopted long ago because people moaned about the fact that it was rigged, at a time when it was actually random. Fifteen years ago was easier, but this is a subject for pub melancholy. No one gives a.
Remember one rule: NO tilting, it's their game and you are playing for one reason (I hope) to beat them and take their money.
I believe you'd probably be better off reading something like The Chimp Paradox by Steve Peters, as it might give you some insight into how to keep your chimp busy and let you (in this case) play rational not emotional poker.
Regards
Mr T
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